Jackie's Forget Me Nots

No vase can overflow if you never fill it up.

My Mom just passed away around 3:50 this afternoon on All Saints Day at the U of A Hospital in Edmonton. She had a stroke on Tuesday and was flown to Edmonton because it was severe. Bless my mom for waiting a few more days!

When I arrived in Edmonton on Thursday night, I broke down and asked her to stay awhile longer, and I think she heard me and acquiesced. I don’t know why I asked her to, maybe because my other sister wasn’t there yet or maybe it’s because I needed some more time with her in this world.

I didn’t get to spend much time with her, but I will remember those last days always. She was barely able to talk, but she could hear and see me well enough and seemed alerted when she was awake. She complained about her need to pee all the time, and she was weak on her left side of her body. Her wishes were not to give her anything, but to let her pass away without resuscitation or intervention; however, I hated seeing her starve to death. She was given an I.V saline solution on Friday, but by Sunday morning the water was interrupting her breathing so much, and her legs mottled that she passed away that afternoon but not before I said goodbye to her around noon and headed back to Calgary. Just as I got home, she died.

I will treasure those last memories of being with her always until hopefully one day I will see her again. I know she is in heaven now, not only because it is what I believe, but because she was able to receive the last sacrament and communion on Saturday night. What a blessing that was!


2 thoughts on “Goodbye Mom, I Love You

  1. How blessed you are that she received the sacrament. My mom is not Catholic, yet my sister and I am. What a wonderful gift God gives. My Mom is 97 and in Hospice care at her home. I “know not the day nor the hour…”, but even with her still able to communicate, I feel like I am going to fall into some abyss every day, every night. God bless you and your family tonight and in the days to come. Thank you for sharing.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Jackie says:

    Thank You so much! Even though her true family is with those in heaven, her family on earth will miss her terribly. God bless you and your mom.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.


Welcome to my Kool Kosher Kitchen where food is fun and fun is to create food!

The Writerly Reader

blog of author Katherine Nabity

Cafe Book Bean

Talk Books. Drink Coffee.


Books! Where are the great books?


A not-so-crazy couple with 15 cats


just a girl who loves her paper & scissors

The Literary Gangster

Dare To Write | Get Wise

Alternatively Speaking

An 'Alternative' spin on the classic 'Lifestyle Blog'

Books and Beyond Reviews

A collection of book reviews, guest posts, interviews and features to do with all things bookish!

Viva Marie's Books

The Love Of All Books

Her Writing Haven

A place where words come alive

Putting My Feet in the Dirt

Thoughts and Perspectives From the Mind of a Common Girl

The Year of Halloween

All the Halloween you can Handle

Naiha A. Mir's Blog

📚Books & All the Hoopla Around me 📚

%d bloggers like this: